There a couple of nights when I put together a playlist on iTunes, Nards would pour out wine and we'll just sit and listen. We both enjoy these quiet nights, not talking, just listening to good music and unwinding with a good bottle of red. It reminds me of a lot of summer days, and weekends, where I would browse through my parents' vast vinyl collection, pop two at a time on the turn table, and put on my Dad's massive headphones and plop down on the nearest chair. Sometimes, my siblings and friends would come visit, and we'd gather around the stereo and have a listening party.
I miss those days.
Today, with almost everybody owning a pair of ear buds and their own mp3 player, nobody really experiences the magic of listening to music together. I appreciate the benefit of not being subjected to someone's disagreeable music preference, sure. But (and I know this sounds awfully corny) I like those brilliant instances when people suddenly stop whatever they are doing because a perfect song plays somewhere.
What rare bliss.